You have to recognize that there cannot be relationships unless there is commitment, unless there is loyalty, unless there is love, patience, and persistence. When you feel weak, you drop your heads on the shoulders of others. Don’t get mad when someone does that. Be honoured! For that person trusted you enough to, even if subtly, ask you for help. The goal is to die with memories, not dreams. Life is a journey and in paces. The Lord rewards.