Live in the present. It’s the only thing that truly exists. Never look back unless you are planning to go that way. The past cannot be changed, the future is yet in your power. Trust the process, allow yourself to enjoy the steps along the way. The fact that you aren’t where you want to be should be enough motivation. You must be happy even when things are going less than great. Don’t let past words from others control your mind. The Lord cares.