Don’t allow yourself to be a victim. Take control of your life. Let go of people who serve you no good. Start doing things to make you happy. Don’t believe in failure. It is not failure if you enjoyed process. Relationships are like puzzle, both pieces have to fit together in order to make picture complete. Surround yourself with people who appreciate you for who you are. Whatever your situation is right now, you’II grow from it. The Lord guides.